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Dating can often be a tricky and frustrating experience. Navigating the complex maze of the dating world can seem daunting at times. While there is no official rulebook for playing the dating game, there are many suggestions (or “rules”) that you should follow as you try to find that perfect Mr. or Mrs. Right.

1. Do be Receptive

If you have always been attracted to the tall, macho guy with bulging muscles and perfectly coiffed blond hair, don’t rule out a short red-headed geek. The same rule applies to men. Just because your dream girl looks like Barbie and wears barely-there dresses doesn’t mean that she’s the one for you. Give those who are not “your type” a chance. Who knows–you might just have been dating the wrong type of girl all along. Opposites can and do attract.

2. Be on Time

Nothing shows disinterest and disrespect more than someone who is consistently late for dates. This shows that the person does not value your time and that he is very selfish. If it happens once in a great while, don’t sweat it, because things can happen. However, if your date is late with regularity, consider moving on to someone who values you more than herself.

3. Pay Attention

No one likes having to repeat himself endlessly. Showing your special someone that you remembered a little detail about her (favorite food, movie, flower or other similar things) will take you far. People want others to pay attention to them. They will be touched you remember the small things about them.

4. Be Honest

If you are just looking to casually date, let the person know, so she doesn’t get her hopes up that you are ready to run down the aisle anytime soon. If you have been married, don’t keep this from the person you are dating. If you have kids, be upfront. If you have slept with hundreds of people, do not feign virginity. More than likely, anything you don’t spill upfront will have a way of getting out eventually. Your partner will appreciate your honesty and integrity, even if it is not something she necessarily wants to hear. Honesty and trust are both the foundation of a good, long-lasting relationship.

5. Don’t be Desperate

Just because she hasn’t called or texted you 20 minutes after your date ended, doesn’t mean she is not interested. By all means, do not bombard them with strings of texts or calls. Nothing screams “Needy and Desperate” more than this. Have enough confidence in yourself to realize that if he doesn’t call you or decides not to date you, it’s his loss, not yours.

6. Do not Settle

If you are not interested in your date, tell her early-on and cut ties, the sooner the better. It is better to get it out in the open right away as opposed to letting the relationship drag on for months or even years. By allowing it to continue on, you risk far more emotional and psychological damage to the other person, especially if his feelings intensify. The right person is out there for you. Don’t settle just because you do not have the confidence in yourself to be single and on your own.

7. Be Creative

Just because you had a couple of great dinner-and-movie dates doesn’t mean that is the only type of date you two will have successfully. If you have common interests, explore those options. For example, if you two are avid marathon runners, take a day trip out into a scenic area of town and go for a long run. Take in the beautiful scenery and challenge each other along the way. Being active together will bring you two closer together over a common bond. Take your date to the amusement park, a local tourist attraction or even out of town for the weekend. Keeping it interesting and creative will keep the relationship alive and thriving.

8. Do not Become Intimate Right Away

Jumping into the sack after the first date can send mixed signals. Physical attraction does not necessarily equate to a good dating relationship. While one party might be in it purely for the sex, the other might take it to mean that the person is falling for him, and he might become too emotionally involved too quickly. Take it slow. Give the relationship time to blossom outside the bedroom before you take that big step. Make sure you are both on the same page about what you want out of the relationship first.

9. Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Take note of how your date treats others, his parents and his friends. Just because she can be sweet and attentive to you does not mean that is how she is once outside the dating realm. If he is dismissive and rude toward others, chances are he will end up doing the same to you. Cut and run early on before she takes you off the pedestal and starts treating you as poorly as she treats others.

10. Get to Know Each Other’s Friends

A person’s friends can reveal a lot about her. If her friends are all unemployed druggies, for example, you should wonder why she does not have friends that are not more successful and on the right path. If they are a group of womanizing guys who troll bars nightly picking up one-night stands, this is a red flag not to ignore. The same goes for a group of scantily-dressed females who go looking for wealthy males to support them. It is important to question why they don’t have a better group of friends and what this says about their character.

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